Close your eyes for a minute and imagine
that you were a newborn, that you had spent the last nine months snuggled up in
your mommy's tummy. You were able to hear her voice and her heartbeat, you were
warm, it was dark and the sounds were muffled.
Now imagine that you were pushed out in the
world and bundled up in a stroller where all you can see is the sky and
strangers (most likely their knees actually), with only your own body warmth to
keep you warm. Wouldn't that be a harsh transition?
That's where 'babywearing' comes in. Using a baby carrier helps make the
transition between the womb and the world a little gentler.
In the baby carrier, baby is snuggled up
against your chest. She can hear your reassuring voice and your heartbeat. She
can feel the rhythm of your walk which will remind her of the womb. Your body
warmth helps her regulate her temperature, both when it's too hot or too cold.
You are so close that you can detect her tiniest expressions and respond to her
needs quicker and better before she gets upset and cries. That's probably one
of the reasons why scientific studies have shown that babies tend to cry and
fuss 51% less in the evening when they're carried an extra 2 hours daily (1).
A baby in a baby carrier has a great view
of the world. She is at eye level with other human beings, she can see their
faces and learn to recognize their emotions and their language. Your arms are
the perfect vantage point to learn everything she needs to learn about growing
up. Whether you're helping older siblings get dressed, going shopping, taking
the bus, she is learning what is expected of her when she grows up. She can
study the movements that she will need to master to be independent. If a loud
noise startles her and she can feel that your heartbeat stays steady, it's
probably not something she should be scared of. Without seemingly doing
anything, you're helping her make sense of the world.
When she's had enough of the busy, noisy
and stimulating world, she can bury her head in your chest or on your shoulder
to get a rest or fall asleep. Then it's your choice, enjoy the quiet cuddle
with your little one in the baby carrier or lie her down on the bed to continue
her sleep.
(1)Urs A. Hunziker, MD, and Ronald G. Barr,
MDCM, FRCP(C)